Location: My Place, Tribeca Social Lounge, PUA Lounge
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Rufio and I invite several people to my place to make dumplings. Most cannot come. :'(
My Chinese exchange partner, Dark Nes, and Doc show up. After, we bounce first to a transvestite burlesque house with a metal club below. The place is not really popping, but we run into the promoter from Thursday night. Finally, we bounce to the hotel from the night before. This night, the place is a private party that Dark gets us into because he knows the name of the DJ.
The music is great, but I have approach anxiety. I do one final set - a two set of Chileans - with an odd opener Rufio gives me. Something like, "I'm really shy, but I think you're really pretty." I open the 7, then I turn to the 9 and say, "Uhm, so what do I do now? Listen, you're going to be my dating coach." The 7 is just staring at me like I'm crazy (turns out she does not speak much English), but the 9 is digging the interaction. Dark eventually comes in and wings me and of course is able to open up the 7 through simple banter and awesome body language.
After 10 minutes, we roll of and Doc heads home. Rufio, Dark, and I hit PUA Lounge. Rufio is tired, so he sleeps. Dark and I open a set, which goes very well until suddenly one girl gets very angry and pulls her friends away. Later, Dark tells me he told the girl she looks like she's from Jersey. (She's actually from the South.) We leave, confused and tired.
Lesson:
Starting with this night, I decide that I am done with AA. Every night out, I need to get at least 10 approaches. I get 8 before leaving Gansevoort and randomly talk with two more women on the subway.
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