FR#65: Before Leaving for Brazil: Random Pick Up Stories:
I once saw an old Chinese woman who was collecting cans on the sidewalk. A girl walked up and gave this woman a bag full of coins just like that. Sexy. I ran after her and got her number. Unfortunately, I forgot to call her lol.
There was another girl that I had met months ago when I was living with Mouse. She was handing out fliers on the street in a white corset, jeans, and goth-esque knee-high boots. I didn't ask for her number because I was still with Mouse, but I stopped and chatted with her and took her picture because her style was so cool. She was so sexy.
One day, I was on the phone with Mouse in Soho and was just saying good-bye to her when the same girl walks by! I wrap things up with Mouse and run around looking for the girl, but I can't find her. I cross the street disappointed, and there she is, on the corner handing out fliers. Apparently, she had just thrown up. So, I got her number, telling her I'd take her to an art exhibit that weekend. That weekend, I got in a fight with Mouse and was depressed, so I just didn't feel like following up, though I wish I had because it would have made me feel better. =\
An old friend of Rufio's from Korea came to NYC for a little. Rufio wanted me to meet her, so i came out. She was super shy, but had a really interesting personality and sense of humor. After an hour or so of warming her up with statements and the rare question to make her comfortable, I just shut the hell up and let her talk. And boy did she talk.
If you remember, I said that if a girl seems to like you, but is too shy to talk, you ought to vacuum. Well, if the girl does not like you yet, you need use a lot of statements, mixed with some questions to get her investing a little. You need to reward her for her investments as well.
The same night, Mouse wanted to talk, but Rufio invited me out again. I met a cute Latina that I liked, but before I could throw my intentions at her, she was whisked off by another wingman of ours who promised her shrooms. :-P Drugs aren't really a DHV in my book anyway...
Then there was this Asian girl who Rufio introduced to over dinner. I flirted with her obviously. Maybe I should have been more discrete. Anyhow, we went to a bar later on, but for some reason I did not tell her I was attracted to her.
Now some of you guys may not have heard about "intention dropping". It's something Juggler talks about and both Dark and Rufio have been using it like crazy over the past few months and have gotten incredible results.
First, you need a social circle. Second, you need a girl you find very sexy. Third, you need to tell her you find her sexy and would like to take her home or something similar. Probably, she won't want to right away. The next time she sees you though, even if she is not very attracted to you, often times she will really like you for some reason. This is how Rufio had four to six orbiters before he got with his current girl. What's more, most of the orbiters, along with a bunch of other girls he gave his intention to are still good friends of his, enough to make his girlfriend really jealous. Living with Rufio, things were not like this before he started working hard at developing a social circle and showing his intentions.
Now, this concept of showing intentions is still compatible with indirect game. Indirect game, though, comes to mean discrete game, which is especially how you should handle things in a social circle.
One of my coworkers was this woman in her late twenties or early thirties. She is an entrepreneur, ridiculously confident and headstrong, knows what she wants and gets it, self-taught...on and on. Incredibly sexy. We're keeping in contact while I'm in Brazil, so we'll see.
There was another coworker who was part of my team for just one afternoon. We had exchanged numbers just so we could coordinate - nothing special. That afternoon though, she called me back. She repeated words I had said earlier that day:
"We meet people at work or wherever and we really vibe with them and become really good friends. Then life changes and you don't see those people anymore. If only you kept in contact with those people, you're life could be so different. I am definitely going to try to keep in contact with some of you guys."
She said those words had really struck a chord with her and that she wanted to go on a date as soon as I got back from Brazil. I admit, I guess I had flirted with her a little by accident. She was too pudgy for me, but had a really gorgeous smile. :-P
It wasn't a line when I said it, but these sentiments are so authentic to everyone's life that I just have to share it with you guys. I hope you will put it to good use.
Lastly, the Thursday before I left for Brazil, Rufio told me that his friend, whom I shall call Pixie, was at Union Square wanting to meet up. The plan was to check out this awesome gallery that would close the next day - Kathe Kollowitz self-portraits. Rufio finally doesn't make it, but I meet up with Pixie and we take off.
Now, Pixie was a girl Rufio had met maybe two months after I had first met him. He had liked her like a lot, but she would always flake for one reason or another. Strangely enough, she wasn't the usual flake. She would always reschedule and always try to reconnect. Later, Rufio threw his intentions on her and things started getting really sexual between them and he brought her back to my apartment one night. Unfortunately, I was already asleep in my apartment! I had told him that I wouldn't mind a sleep over with Pixie though, so he knew it was fine.
That night, Rufio fell asleep when he hit the bed, but Pixie and I stayed up all night talking. At the time, this made me frustrated with Mouse. Mouse was always so shy about talking, where as Pixie was not shy at all about contributing her thoughts or stories.
So, I was already a little attracted to Pixie. We went to the gallery where we lost track of time. She wanted to come back to my place to do portraits of each other, so I brought her back. I had to go to work soon, so there was no time.
As we put our shoes on, I said, "Before we go..." then I moved in for a kiss. She thought I just wanted a hug, so I said, "That's not what I was going for." And we make out for a bit.
Later, I realize I qualified the hell out of Pixie just by accident. She's a cool girl, so I often found myself saying, "Wow, I think it's very cool of you...blah blah blah."
The next day, Pixie e-mails me saying that we should hang out when I get back from Brazil. Awesome.
Rufio is a very giving person. All of the girls he introduced me to over those two weeks have been girls he liked at some point, especially Pixie. Thanks Rufio!
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