Location: MoMA, The Park
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Dark Nes, Rufio, and I hit up MoMA at 7:30, so most people are leaving. I hardly approach - maybe three? I run into an old classmate who says I seem completely different, which makes me feel better.
As we leave, Rufio approaches a Belgian two set. Kittie lives here, Puppy is visiting. Later, Puppy tells me that she hardly understood what Rufio was talking about and from then on saw Rufio as being the weirdest out of all of us, which is odd because he is the most chill.
Rufio gets them to come along with us and we exit together, taking them to a bar. Rufio bounces and I use try the "I've never been slapped" routine. She does not react well to the ass touching, although she still seeks rapport. Eventually, we bring them to a hotel in Soho to chill with Lupin and Rufio where we eat.
I sit next to Puppy (my target) and at one point, she mentions that she doesn't know who Lord Voldemort is. I disqualify her for this, then tell her she rates a -2 on my "Probable Girlfriend Scale," where 0 is no chance and 10 is girlfriend material. The next thing she says gets her to -3. Later, I ask her to give weirdness ratings to everyone, but when it comes to me, she says I have a 7 on her "Probable Boyfriend Scale."
We head to Park, which is full of Asians. Lupin is accosted by a young Asian girl who hovers around him all night. We get the girls dancing for the whole night, but I cannot get myself to escalate.
Rufio and I do some random approaches. I grab a Korean girl to dance and everyone in her group freaks out.
Dark is doing crazy dance game with the girls. Eventually we leave. Lupin and Rufio go into the Diner and don't say good-bye to the girls. Neither of them felt like the night was instructive at all for them, nor did they like the girls at all. Dark and I say good bye and that's it.
Later, Dark Nes reframes the night. We could have used the girls as social proof in Park. We all feel better, especially I do after having a milk shake.
Lessons:
-Belgians
Never be afraid to escalate. Just do it. One) logically, there are other women in the world. Two) if the girl is into you and you do not escalate, your hesitation will cause her to lose attraction.
Swallow your misgivings and take a chance. Once you take the leap and escalate, you will feel all right, especially if things work out. If you get blown out, you're early game needs improvement. Next!
-Dancing Girls
Always get eye contact.
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