2010-02-03 Wednesday: Pirate Ship, Two Story Hipster Bar
AltEgo, Dark Nes, Rufio
9 sets
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Rufio, Dark, AltEgo and I hit several locations. At the Pirate Ship, Dark and I open one girl. Dark dances with her. Later, I thumb wrestle a black girl who nearly a foot taller than me. Approaching is becoming more and more difficult.
2010-02-04 Thursday: The Met, Barnes and Nobles, Random Art Galleries, Soho Social Lounge
Roster: AltEgo, Dark Nes, Rufio
10-15 sets
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I have signed up for the "Why the Seduction Community Sucks" 7 Day Inner Game Challenge. So far, it has not changed my game much, but I am now approaching with, "To be honest..." then I say whatever is on my mind.
AltEgo and I go to B&N. We do alternating P&S. He gets two numbers and I get two numbers.
An aside: A few days before, I had also come to B&N with AltEgo. That time, I ran into a girl - HB8 Asian - who I had seen with her boyfriend at the opening of Caprica. When I had seen her in line for Caprica, my jaw dropped. She is so pretty, has awesome style, and is very feisty.
When I saw her in B&N, I ran up to her and opened her. Her boyfriend was there. I chatted with them and gave her a Valentine's day card with my number written inside.
On the way out, as we are heading to the Union Square subway, AltEgo sees two models - HB10s. He can't approach, so I get an idea. "God, please give us another hot model." Lo and behold, AltEgo sees a tall 9.5 exiting the subway. She begins crossing the street and I tell him to go. He won't do it. "Okay then, AltEgo. I hope you're ready because here goes!" I put my arm around him and drag him across the street to the girl. "Hi! My friend noticed you from over there and was telling me how pretty you are. I said he just had to talk to you, so I pulled him over here." AltEgo begins talking, but I soon realize that the tactic had completely backfired - the girl saw me as alpha and AltEgo as beta. She keeps looking at me and I finally invite her to the Soho Social Lounge. I am so stunned by her beauty and her sexy accent - she is a Hungarian Model - that I let her number close me. I never hear from her again.
>On Saturday, AltEgo begins to AA about a three set. I pull his arm around me and drag him in such a way that it looks like he is dragging me. As we get to the three set, he introduces me as the shy friend who cannot approach. He looks alpha and I look beta. I call it the "Young Dragon Pretends to Grow Wings" Opener.
Later, AltEgo, and I hit up some random art galleries that Rufio tells us about. While waiting for Rufio to get to our particular gallery, AltEgo and I do several approaches. He is still dealing with some AA, but he is getting through some of it. Sometimes, I do not have to push him hard at all. A few times, though, he approaches a set and hovers. After hovering, it isn't really possible for him to open, so I end up taking some of the sets. One set, I number close and I still text. They are part of a group that explores NYC's art scene and they invited me out with them.
We meet up with Rufio, Dark, and Sabastian. Rufio, AltEgo, and I bounce to grab some food in Soho, then head to the Soho Social Lounge. We meet Dark and Sabastian there. I do several sets, then dance with a tall Polish girl. The party is too small to do set after set, so AltEgo and I leave. The next party is too full however, so we head home. On the way, strangely enough, we run into the tall Polish girl. I begin telling her about S'mores, though I do not tell her exactly what they are. She presses me for an explanation and insists we get some. I tell her I would invite her to make them, but I cannot because I have a roommate for the moment. Anyhow, she is not that cute. I may see her next week at the Soho Social Lounge.
>I wonder how effective this gambit will be for getting other girls back to my place.
I realize numbers mean little. There was a time when I was getting numbers a lot. That was in November. Numbers, as we all know, are generally meaningless, so I stopped.
In the past few weeks, however, I realized that I was afraid of going for the close only to get blown out. I realized that even when I wanted to get a girl's number, I would avoid it. This may be fine if you are going for an SNL, but when you meet a girl on the subway, on the street, or in a museum, if you cannot insta-date and you do not close, the interaction is done.
So, I've been trying to number close and it is helping me get over my fear of closing. Now what I want to work on is lacing every interaction with sexual innuendo, purposefully slowing down conversations, making things intimate and isolated so I can consistently kiss close. Yes, I admit I am going for validation.
The result I am going for is MLTRs and friendship. If what I've heard is true, if you make out with a girl, she is less likely to come with you on a day two. By going for kisses, I am learning to be unattached to my desired outcome. For now, I just want to have some fun nights and enjoy the ride.
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