Inner Game: Pieces of the Puzzle FULL

MasterP encouraged me to record the important points of our conversations on my blog. I believe this is so important that I am sticking a link to this in a place of prominence.

Below is an amalgamation of ideas, principles, and goals I have come by, whether through conversations with friends (MasterP and Rufio are major contributors), through my readings, or through my own experience.

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This is a work in progress.

I tentatively categorize these ideas into layers:

>Spirituality

>>Relationship with Environment

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Hm, this looks an awful lot like Tim's Flawless Natural setup.

The below principles can apply to all social interactions.

1. Spirituality

These ideas deal with core belief and mindset. Often times, if these principles are in place, many aspects of Mechanics - the way to act and speak - will take care of themselves.

Status

Spirituality:

In life, we must view ourselves as worthy - or dare I say, more than worthy.

Effect on Reality:

Why is this important?

A girl wants a man of equal or greater value. Why would she settle for any less?

We men spy that beautiful woman across the floor and want in. We compliment, buy drinks, offer dates, and even deny our sexuality. The woman already stands upon her pedestal.

Traditional Pick Up tactics are a reaction to the above wretched and needy sentiments. The man endeavors to:

1) Lower the woman's value through back-handed compliments, mild insults, and teasing - Negs.

2) Raise his own value through high value stories and behaviors - Demonstrations of Higher Value (DHV).

In reality, there is a more powerful mindset: We are of high value. The women we meet is of uncertain value. Her beauty attracted your attention, but beauty is superficial - is this girl awesome enough to experience the adventure that is you? Will she contribute? If so, does she sexually and romantically meet your standards, or is she friend material? Be like the Agnostic when dealing with women - do not assume anything.

The woman must feel she has to prove herself to you. She must feel that you are not easy, otherwise she will not value your interest in her. Furthermore, conversation will be created as the woman qualifies herself to you. Other names for this technique is breaking

The more woman you experience deeply, the higher your standards will become and the more your qualification will be sincere.

If not, politely wish her a good night.

Posture:

Stand with your back straight and chest out. Keep your level or up a bit. Walk with a confident swagger.

Composure:

Always keep your cool. You must be able to keep your composure under pressure. When you recognize that you are getting nervous, use a technique to center yourself. I was encouraged to find my own techniques - well, I have some ideas.

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Affirmations:

One technique is to create recordings of affirmations or listen to motivational speakers who give affirmations. This will keep you motivated and help you focus.

Areas where I need to focus:

Delivery:

Another way of putting this is calibration.

Mindset:

This goes along with affirmations. I need the proper mindset.