FR#57: A Pinoy Party
2010-03-12
Rufio, Sparrow
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A while ago, while riding the subway with Rufio, I approached two Chinese girls, one of whom I shall call Spice. I got a number and a few days later, Alter Ego, Doc, and I met these two girls and Spice's parents for dinner. Spice and I kept texting every once in a while and she at one point agreed to cook lunch for Rufio and I.
On this day, I asked if Spice was still up for cooking for us tomorrow. She said she'd love to.
The rest of the day was a lot of walking. I had an improv class, then in the pouring rain, I met up with Rufio in LES. We walked to this Filipino party, I talked with a cute 18 year old, but Rufio found us a ride back to my apartment, so we left.
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Sichuanese Crab, Peep S'mores, and the Future Me
2010-03-13 Saturday
Comedian, Dark Nes, Doc, Lupin, Rufio, Sebastian, Sparrow
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I had been telling Spice forever that I'd introduce her to S'mores, so after Rufio and I clean up, we run to Rite Aid to get the ingredients. There, Rufio sees Peeps, so we buy two boxes to pimp out our S'mores.
Spice arrives and we chill for over an hour until we realize we're all starving. We help Spice prepare the ingredients - lotus root, ginger, garlic, and crab. The meal is fantastic, though it leaves me smelling like garlic for the next two days. :-(
I tell Spice that I'm learning how to give massages from YouTube and ask if she'd like to help me practice. Rufio heads out and after fifteen minutes of chatting, I turn Spice toward me and say, "You know what I'd love to do right now? I'd love to kiss you." She leans back and we're kissing.
I ask her to stand up as I convert the futon into a bed and as I push her down onto it, she asks me so sweetly in Chinese, "Are we really going to do this?" I think she wants it, but I honestly am not so sure whether I want it.
"We don't have to," I respond. I love her personality, but I am not extremely attracted. I've never had sex, so I'd like my first time to be with someone who drives me wild on a physical as well as emotional level.
After bringing her to climax four or so times, our hands are down each other's pants and her shirt is off. I try to strip our clothes off more because I want to go down on her, but she asks in Chinese, "Could we not do it?" I have no intention of going all the way, so it's fine. We hold each other for an hour as we pillow talk until I realize I should get going to a party in Tribeca. We walk to the subway.
I meet up with the crew at the Tribeca party. I initially am feeling AA, but after a few approaches, I am bouncing around talking to random people, though the only girl I really like is this woman from a country in Eastern Europe called Macedonia. In case anyone is wondering, Macedonia is a successor state of the former Yugoslavia and declared independence in 1991.
Anyway...Macedonia was in her mid to late twenties, a PhD student for mathematics, and was working in Finance. When she told me this, I flipped a shit - that is precisely the path I am on (although I will add a second major in Philosophy when I return to school). She asked me why I am want to go into Finance. I replied that I want to take my future wealth and open charter schools in New York and other countries. When I said this, she flipped a shit. That is precisely what she wants to do. Incredible. So, I FB closed her and got her friend's e-mail. lol
I also flirted with Doc's friend Amidalla who is incredibly beautiful and quite intelligent. Despite her good looks, agile mind, and sharp tongue (she throws shit tests at me like confetti, which is an IOI), I have failed to even recognize her on two occasions, not to mention the fact that I've forgotten her name both times. I once accidentally referred to her as Amidalla, though I find it fitting for a woman of such refined beauty. After a time, she started taking her hand in mine every time I spoke with her. Next time I see her, I plan to intent drop and see where that leads us.
We try to organize a trip to Gansevoort, then some other place, but it fails and we split up. I head home and meet up with Amidalla, Doc, and Rufio for food at the diner near my apartment.
Later, Rufio tells me that I broke up several of his sets, which confuses me. I came into his sets and asked him a quick question. His answer would tell me he either wants a wing or is doing fine by himself. This is a system he introduced to me and it works quite well. What's more, it can be expected that something or someone may interrupt your set at anytime. We all know ways to deal with interruptions, the least difficult of which is your wingman coming in to ask a quick question. I for one have only ever been truly interrupted when Lupin comes into set and just stands there looking sexy. :-P
If you want an extreme example of interruption, see FR#56 where my set with R&B is interrupted by maybe seven guys.
Anyhow, Rufio did give me a superior way to wing: Observe the set and decide for yourself whether your wingman needs you to distract the other members of the group. If he needs assistance, simply go in and open the group to give your wingman isolation. Consulting with your wingman is unnecessary.
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